If you go down the first list here to "long term effects of treatment" you will find a bunch of letters that relate to this subject. Damage to healthy cells may cause side effects. Maybe he will benefit more from therapy. Sometimes they are the first sign of a brain tumor. Disorientation (not knowing where s/he is). Chemotherapy and radiation given to the brain at the same time. The first time was after his first round with cancer. I found them both helpful. Two are young and still at home, and I needed to be "together" for them. Tumor located in the central nervous system (CNS) which includes the brain and spinal cord. Trouble with verbal memory, such as remembering a conversation 12. Cancer can affect all areas of your life – including your personality. He is no longer big and strong, but we joke he is scrappy. Some chemotherapy drugs and radiation therapy to the brain can cause problems months or years after treatment ends. Immediately thereafter he went into Acute Leukemia, followed by 10-times worse chemo and a bone marrow transplant. I got on the phone to family and friends and told them he needed their support any way they could give it - in person or by phone calls/cards. Ok? Short attention span 9. I pray all the time. These changes can be due to the brain tumour or the treatment for the brain tumour. Are you wondering if chemo will affect your personality? Discuss any signs or symptoms with your health care team. Feeling of mental fogginess 8. From diagnosis through the early part of chemotherapy, I was a ball of, My first cancer diagnosis came in June of 2007. But she always brings me a plate of food. Slick, are you still going through treatment? However, they can also damage some of the surrounding healthy cells either by direct administration or by impacting the brain indirectly. xoxoxo. But you really can't hide from having cancer and all the mental problems that come with it. Quiet, inactive behavior, including sedation or confusion. You make me smile. Chemo brain and personality changes We hear so often from our community about their struggles with chemo brain. While cognitive changes associated with brain surgery often occur immediately, changes associated with radiation and chemotherapy can develop more gradually over time. The neuropsychologist performs tests before and after treatment to determine what parts of the brain were affected and to measure changes in cognition, memory, comprehension, and personality. Taking longer than usual to complete routine tasks 11. Request a neuropsychological evaluation with a neuropsychologist to help diagnose the nature, severity and possible causes of your cognitive changes. I've changed. I was sick with worry. It is important to identify your risk for infertility before treatment starts and take steps to preserve your read more, I became a cancer survivor in 1992. We’ll focus here on cognitive changes in adults with cancer. Doctors and researchers may call chemo brain many things, such as cancer treatment-related cognitive impairment, cancer-related cognitive change, or post-chemotherapy cognitive impairment. I'm a survivor, and this is my take. Two things that helped me were faith in God. He says he's had to take enough medicine and will not take any more than he has to. I've been battling this since 1987 and I enjoy life more than I did then even though at that time I was not a very unhappy person. Many of us feel our families can't possibly understand the fear, pain and frustration. Neurocognitive function in brain tumors. I do not LIKE unpleasant surprises at all. (2009). The fight against cancer is personal for many of them, and they’ll never stop working on behalf of survivors everywhere. Cancer is more than the tumor, surgery and treatment. I can't imagine 70 libs! Every experience is different. Managing Cancer-related Side Effects Changes in Mood or Thinking People going through cancer treatment sometimes have cognitive changes such as trouble remembering, paying attention, or thinking clearly. I sure did see a huge personality change in my husband - and my self included. And when I have a good day I try my best to return the same to her. And I also wanted to say that I am the one who wants to reduce the stress. Avoid dangerous activities if you are alone, such as cooking, using tools that could cause injury, driving and traveling to unfamiliar places. Thanks so much for your comments. These changes can affect many aspects of life such as the ability to work or even to do everyday tasks. Delirium may occur suddenly during treatment. And I hate drugs just like your husband. Chronic changes (dementia) are often not reversible. I was 5 months pregnant, and my husband, Jake, and I were expecting twin girls. You might want to ask for a referral to a neuropsychologist to help your husband get to the emotional and/or biolgical cause of his darkness of spirit. Having worked since the age of 14 I was completly lost. I tried to finish all the projects I have started and not finished, etc. I am not exactly expecting a miracle or anything like that. If your husband is going full throttle I suspect that is his coping skills at work. Changes in how your kidneys work. Here’s what you need to know about life after you’ve completed your treatment. BS and get out of my way. We also have 4 kids. It may be harder to identify than delirium, and it may not have one identifiable cause. Resent Results in Cancer Research, 171: 165-174. After treatment, skin irritations begin to subside and changes to your skin will go away or begin less noticeable over time. I have worked with my mind so I can have my tests without sedatives and actually am able to take a nap during the MRI. Difficulty with problem solving and following directions. Chemotherapy, radiation and surgery are treatments that are used to remove or destroy cancer cells. However I recognized he was depressed and with some encouragement from me had him talk to his Doc about it and they put him on medication. Does any other person have the same experience? Perhaps I can take some of it from you. But I still have a sense of humor and don't take my pain out on anyone. Yet fatigue can usually be successfully managed medically. This cloudiness or mental change is commonly referred to as chemo brain. Yes, life is short and there is alot of BS. Little things that go wrong would get me very irritated. BEAUTY & HEALTH TIPS; FOOD & DIET; WELLNESS & FITNESS; RELATIONSHIP MATTERS My belly…, Some women who go through cancer treatment find that they can't have children afterward. Your strength gives me strength and helps me understand how difficult and complicated things can get. So cut the Maybe mentally, I think that after what I've gone through, life is short. When I am calm and relaxed, my tumors tend to go dormant. This time, I asked the Dr. to put me on them while he was in treatment. As it covered too large an area and Radiation makes bone brittle there was no way they would do any surgery. Some cancer survivors may experience lymphedema as a side effect of surgical or radiation cancer treatment. Unusual sleep patterns, such as awake at night and asleep during the day. We get all sort of feelings, fear, anger, depression, etc., and many times we don't even notice until it's been going on for a while. Show your support by shopping Livestrong merchandise. My priorities have changed. I felt worthless inside as I was not moving ahead in life. We are coping with this new person. I hope you and your husband find that middle ground but sometimes it takes time. You have given me some new things to think about. 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